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I’m not afraid of labour.

I’m not afraid of the intense pressure of my uterus contracting, tightening, pushing…

My cervix slowly dilating… Once open zero centimetres and currently stretching to a whopping 10 centimetres? Bring it!

I’m not even scared about pushing my baby into this world and the likelihood of my vagina tearing.

What I am terrified of is being induced.

There are a couple ways of inducing labour which, when applied to a healthy mother with a low-risk pregnancy, usually happens because she has gone over her “due date.” From what I can tell, more often than not, they cause problems for both the mother and baby.

The most common medical ways to induce labour is with synthetic drugs oxytocin and prostaglandin. Prostaglandin-mimicking drugs like Cervidil and Prepidil are used to thin the cervix and oxytocin-imitating drugs like Syntocinon or Pitocin are used to bring on contractions through intravenous injection.

Some of the reasons why I have no interest in being induced this way:

• While Cervidil is inserted like a tampon and Prepidil is a gel, Syntocinon and Pitocin are given intravenously. Being hooked up to an IV limits mobility making natural pain relief (bath, shower, moving around) more difficult.
• Pain relief is especially important after an induction because as if natural labour didn’t hurt enough, these drugs cause unnaturally strong contractions, often leading to what is known as the cascade of interventions.
• Induction in this way can cause fetal distress (depressed fetal heart rate patterns and decreased oxygen availability.) This often results in the use of forceps, vacuum extraction or C-section—all part of the cascade.
• The unnatural contractions means a woman is more likely to use pain medication (ie: an epidural, a common next step in yes, the cascade…)
• Having an oxytocin drip like Syntocinon or Pitocin, will usually mean continuous fetal heart monitoring. This makes going into the shower or tub for some natural pain relief (warm water) impossible.

I think when my baby’s ready to come out, she’ll come out. They predicted she’d be six pounds at birth, so I would be more than happy to give her a little more time to bake in this oven. If there is plenty of amniotic fluid left, and the baby is not under stress, there’s no need for her to be born so immediately.

It’s important for people (hello, grandparents!) to realize the due date means very little and is only an estimate. It assumes that all women run on a perfect 28-day cycle and that we all ovulate at the same point in that cycle. But that’s not the case.

Only something like three to five per cent of women deliver on their anticipated due date, and most of the time doctors will wait  between seven and 10 days before insisting on induction.

At my last appointment , I talked to my doctor about what would happen if I went over my due date (February 9 — yesterday!). She said she’d give me a week and after that, yes, she’d like to hook me up to an IV, and likely give me Syntocinon.

She was pretty responsive when I asked if there were alternatives to an intravenous intervention. We sorted out the fact that I did not want to be hooked up to an IV unless it was absolutely necessary and she said the alternative could be Cervadil. But if Cervadil’s job is to thin my cervix; at 37.5 weeks it was already 80 percent effaced, I’m not sure what the point is.

I was also surprised and hugely relieved when she told me I could, of course, decide not to have the induction so soon, bringing me closer to 42 weeks if I wanted. I would have to schedule regular non-stress tests to make sure everything was okay in there, which was fine by me.

Not every woman realizes that while the doctor might like a patient to deliver no later than a week after her due date, and if there are no medical complications that would make induction necessary to save the baby/mother’s life, whether or not to be induced really is the mother’s decision.

Luckily, sex is the best drug

There are perfectly natural ways to rustle up a little prostaglandin and oxytocin. Why not bring on labour the way this whole pregnancy thing started?

Semen is the most concentrated source of prostaglandins that exists. The synthetic Cervidil and Prepidil can’t compare. These prostaglandins that occur naturally are not associated with the host of potential problems that come along with the other stuff—won’t cause fetal distress, a ruptured uterus, unnaturally painful contractions etc. Getting some semen on your cervix will help it thin—a necessary step in labour.

Breast stimulation, which goes quite nicely with intercourse, releases oxytocin. Orgasms do the same. When oxytocin is released the uterine muscles contract! That sounds a little more fun than an IV.

In the end, the baby will usually come out when she’s good and ready. Who would want to leave the comfort of a warm, cozy womb anyways? Take your time, baby.

Sources: Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth. While this book has largely succeeded in helping me feel worse about delivering in a hospital as opposed to at home, it has been a great resource, one I relied on heavily for much of the information in this blog post.

When to cut?

Going into the delivery room, you might have decided who was going to cut the umbilical cord. Will the doc do it, or is it something Daddy wants to do?

We often think about who is going to cut the cord, but give little regard to when the best time is to do it. Many people would say “immediately” is the obvious answer. But some people never cut the cord, leaving newborn and placenta attached for the first few days of life.

On this one, I’m most comfortable somewhere in between. I vote for delayed cord clamping (waiting a few minutes until the cord has stopped pulsing before clamping it), but I have no plans to practice Placentophagy (eating the placenta for its nutritional value).

For the most part, a hospital wants to get a woman in and out as soon as possible. Not necessarily because the place is run by a bunch of jerks, but because there is only enough space. Most of the time, the preference will be to clamp the umbilical cord within a few seconds of birth.

But this might not be to baby’s advantage. More and more people are asking for delayed cord clamping, realizing the many benefits that come along with it.

Delaying the cord clamping can allow up to 50% of the baby’s blood volume to flow back into her little body, while early cord clamping results in fewer red blood cells and can cause postpartum haemorrhage, retained placenta and respiratory distress for the baby. Delayed cord clamping may help prevent anaemia later in life.

The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada says, “Waiting at least two minutes after the baby is born before cutting the umbilical cord may help your baby get more blood supply. This may be most helpful for premature babies. If your partner wishes to cut the cord, this can also be arranged.”

Cord Blood Donation

I was surprised to see how quick the hospital was to push for cord blood donation. It was the first thing we were told about when we went in for an appointment a few weeks pregnant.

There are two public and 10 private Health Canada-registered cord blood banks in Alberta and Quebec.

When we went to visit our hospital to check out where we would be having the baby, a big part of the presentation was spent waxing lyrical about donations. There has been a lot of controversy surrounding cord blood donations, not necessarily because of the early clamping that’s necessary to keep the blood, but because people aren’t so sure of the point of public cord blood banking.

Donating to a public bank makes a lot of sense, I think (it’s public donations that the hospital was all-for). Private donations on the other hand are mind-boggling. The chances your child will ever use his own cord blood are so slim.

And if he has certain illnesses like Leukemia (one of the most common diseases that cord-blood stem cells are used to treat) his own blood likely can’t correct the defect. Treatment would likely end up being taken from a public bank anyway.

Some people take comfort in keeping the blood in case a sibling is ill one day, but private storage of your child’s blood into teenagerdom costs thousands of dollars.

After watching the Hema-Quebec supported video at the hospital it was time for my partner and I to have a long talk about what we wanted to do. He was very touched by the video, feeling that if he had the chance to save another child’s life, he would like to take it.

Maybe I’m heartless, but my vote was for allowing our baby to keep her own blood. We sought out the advice of our doula, who never offers her opinions unless I drag them out of her.

“So,” I asked, “Hypothetically speaking, what would you do?”

She said that if she spent the entire pregnancy taking such good care of herself and the baby by making the right food choices, exercising regularly, and taking prenatal vitamins etc., why deny that baby this last bit of nutrients?

After a little more discussion we decided: Baby, you can keep your blood.

Congratulations! You’re pregnant! First thing’s first: would you consider an abortion?

If your pregnancy was planned or the surprise was a happy surprise, it may seem like a silly question. But more and more new parents are being presented with this option when they are asked if they want to have prenatal screening tests like Amniocentesis or Chorionic Villus Sampling. Based on the results of those tests, terminating the pregnancy can become something that people consider.

To be clear, this is not an argument against abortion rights: women’s sovereignty over their bodies is not in question. What I do question is making invasive procedures routine, especially when the results they produce are not definitive. And the tests also pose difficult moral questions: if the potential for abnormality is present, is that a reason to terminate a pregnancy? People obviously make their own choices for their own reasons, and I can’t stand in judgment of that. What I can tell you is why I decided that these tests were not for me.

Am I being dramatic by calling these tests invasive? Not at all. For an Amnio, done around week 15, a large needle is inserted into the amniotic sac after it passes though the woman’s abdomen and uterus. About 20 mls of fluid is extracted and tested for various disease markers and other potential abnormalities. Can this cause harm to the fetus? You bet. Can it cause a miscarriage? Yes, ma’am.

A test used mainly to screen for Down syndrome (as well as Edwards syndrome, Turner syndrome and neural tube defects like spina bifida) Amnio is standard for women over 35, as the chances of giving birth to a baby with a chromosomal abnormality greatly increase with age.

According to the The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada, at the age of 27, my chances of giving birth to a baby with Down syndrome are approximately 1 in 1,111. A woman aged 42 has a 1-in-64 chance.

Author and midwife Ina May Gaskin says in her Guide to Childbirth, the reason 35 was chosen as the recommended age is  “…at this age the likelihood of having a baby with a chromosome condition is about the same or greater than the risk the test will injure the fetus or cause a miscarriage.”

Depending on whether you choose to pay for it privately ($375–$900 at one Montreal clinic) or get the free test at the hospital, you will wait between 48 hours and five weeks for results. Probably a very nerve-wrecking wait.

After a CVS, done earlier in pregnancy than Amnio (in the first trimester), you may discover that your baby could be born with Down syndrome. Either you consider this is a reason to terminate the pregnancy, or you spend a very anxious few months wondering and worrying about your baby’s health. Though maybe for some, being armed with this knowledge would be a way to mentally prepare and plan for a baby who was not born “perfect.”

At our first visit with my OBGYN, we were presented with a pamphlet for a private clinic which offers prenatal screening tests. We didn’t open the pamphlet.

I was surprised when a few friends and some family members seemed to think it was careless of us not to do go in for screening. If the test is available, why on Earth would we choose not to take it? Did we need to borrow some money?

Amnio was the first of a long list of medical interventions we would choose to bypass. Just because certain technology is available doesn’t mean we need to make use of it. I am at such a low risk for delivering a baby with a chromosomal abnormality that we felt the risks outweighed the benefits. Secondly, after a very brief discussion with my partner, we knew we would carry this baby to term and love her regardless.

We decided we would enjoy this pregnancy, assume the best, and hope she is born healthy and happy. Just like our parents did.

Jenn Hardy

If you’ve picked up the latest issue of This Magazine, you might have noticed Jenn Hardy’s article on Canada’s midwife shortage. (Jenn is a former This intern and now a Montreal-based freelance writer. She has written for us recently on sustainable agriculture, Montreal musician Vanessa Rodrigues, and investigated the environmental claims of the DivaCup.)

You might have noticed that we added a little note to Jenn’s story about the fact that she is, in fact, pregnant right now, and due to deliver in just about a month. She’s been chronicling the experience so far, plus her efforts to make hers a “natural” pregnancy to the greatest degree possible, from her eating choices to finding environmentally friendly baby products. You can follow her entire blog at MamaNaturale.ca, but she’ll also add a few thoughts here on the This blog over the coming weeks.

For now, we’ll simply point out a few of the notable posts from Mama Naturale, to get you started. Make sure to follow us on Facebook or Twitter, or directly through our RSS feed, so you’ll never miss new articles and blog posts. You can also follow @Mama_Naturale on Twitter for the latest.

Catch up with Mama Naturale in 5 easy posts

• Peeing on a stick
• Looking into a water birth
• Hearing the heartbeat
• Hand-Me-Down Hardy’s guide to reducing, reusing, and recycling baby gear
• Quebec’s acute midwife shortage